6 months; 184 days; 4,416 hours; 264,960 minutes. Okay, enough of that. You get the point: our wedding is getting closer and closer. The 6 month mark for Daryl and I was just a week ago, on the 13th. The 6 month mark may be the point where some brides might officially begin freaking out. Not me. Now, don’t get me wrong…I have been known to get emotionally stressed, but looking forward I feel pretty confident. Check back in a few months and see if I still feel the same way. Personally, my moments of worry usually come right before, during, or after an appointment with our planner or one of our vendors. Daryl and I are just so busy, we go weeks without doing anything and then cram before and right after a wedding related meeting. But, freak out or not, by this point there are a certain amount of things a bride and groom should have complete by this point. Perhaps not all of the details, but the major stuff anyway, which require down payments, reservations etc. Here’s a quick run down of a list. Feel free to check the list and measure my progress against your own:
The MUST HAVES:
ceremony location / reception hall
wedding date
VENDORS (not necessary for everyone, depends on preference and your event)
photographer
- portrait decisions, locations etc.
- payment
videographer
- payment
dj / band
- list of music
- payment
florist (in house for our venue)
- bouquets, boutonnieres, centerpieces, ceremony decor
- payment
cake artist / baker (in house & included for our venue)
- payment
caterer & bar tender (in house & included in our case)
- menu decisions (buffet style, sit down dinner, dessert bar, specialty desert table,
- bar options (open bar, partially open, limited, closed etc.)
wedding officiant, minister, pastor, lay person etc.
- ceremony details
- payment
OTHER / MISCELLANEOUS (not all are necessary)
wedding theme
wedding dress
- fitting(s)
- payment
formal wear, tuxedos for men
- fitting
- payment
bridesmaids dresses
- fittings
- payment
wedding registry
save-the-dates
invite list
website
invitations
schedule of events
table decor
place cards
seating arrangements (if necessary)
wedding favors
honeymoon
Daryl and I have an appointment tomorrow evening with our wedding planner. Hopefully when we get home, we will have another thing or two crossed off from the list!